Results with Couples
Results
Couples often find that the Four Day Intensive and follow-up turn around challenges in their relationship, even if they had struggled for years or sometimes decades.
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“Almost from the beginning of my marriage I thought I was married to the wrong person. He didn’t pay attention to me, he wasn’t romantic, he didn’t notice my new hair, clothes, etc. etc. This went on for twenty years. I blamed him for my unhappiness. If only he would change. By understanding the Three Principles I was able to give up habits of thought that were ruining my marriage and my happiness. I stopped listening to those accusing voices and negative sound bites running through my head. I was able to slow down. I began to understand that I was creating this negative view of my husband by believing my own negative thinking. As I relaxed and stopped being angry and defensive, he began to relax also. He always was my best friend, I just didn’t know it. We are married thirty years now and it gets better and better.” - Carolyn Daniele, Edgartown, MA |
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“When we came to see you, we had the BEST experience ever! I had been on the verge on leaving my marriage for 20 years, and was convinced before we came that divorce was the only option. But you accomplished remarkable steps in such a short time. You opened our eyes to each other and made me realize our ‘thoughts’ were so powerful to the outcome of our marriage and our future. It’s been over two years since we saw you, and we do have our ups and downs, but overall we’re very happy. THANK YOU!” - Judi & Charlie C, LA, CA |
| “I used to be a very annoyed sort of person. I found my children very annoying, I found my husband enormously annoying. Most of my friends were pretty annoying! Little by little, I realized it wasn’t my friends, and it wasn’t the kids and it wasn’t my husband. It was all coming from the inside. All kinds of things are sprouting in my relationship with my husband. What happens with me feeds into him, what happens to him feeds into me. Both the kids are doing really well. There’s all sorts of fresh thinking and fresh life being generated in our house.”
-Kanta Lipsky, West Tisbury, MA |
| “I was so alienated from my husband when we came for our intensive I thought we could never work through all of our issues. Since then, it’s been so good. My husband’s really there when he’s with me, and he listens so compassionately. My daughter is eating dinner with us for the first time in years. She keeps asking, ‘What happened to you guys?’”
- S.L.H, Seattle, WA |
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